tolyamorous

Have you ever been in a “tolyamorous” relationship? (effectively polyamorous but with implied, not explicit, consent for your partner to sleep around)

Have you ever been in a “tolyamorous” relationship? (effectively polyamorous but with implied, not explicit, consent for your partner to sleep around) 2026

“These people aren’t fools or dupes,” he continued. “They’re not to be pitied—they know what they signed up for and long ago made peace with what they got. They’re willing to put up with it—a certain amount of it—reconciled to it, willing to tolerate it. They are, in a word, tolyamorous.”

'Tolyamory' is new worrying relationship term that means you might have to end it James Moorhouse 2026