fair enough Messer alexz, changed. bilby, essentially that is correct, however, I found recently that in fact, either spelling is acceptable in en_US (for the color, not the surname of course), gray being only the more common.
Sarra's serving suggestion used to be called tea with in Australia. Hal Porter describes the ritual of tea with in one of the books of his autobiographical trilogy. The period in question was probably the 1920's or 1930's from memory. Both the habit of drinking tea with and the expression have gone way out of fashion.